If the goal is to be in a loving and nurturing relationship, shouldn’t the energy that you exert reflect that? “No need to overcompensate or declare how powerful and strong of a woman you are. It smells of insecurity. Just be her,” says Deya Smith, Producer of the Tom Joyner Morning Show.
Tapping into your soft strength makes you smarter, not harder. Oh and not to mention happier! How do I know? I’ve learned the “hard” way.If you’re ready for that the change, what are you willing to do differently? How about an exchange of power?
Don’t be afraid to tap into the soft and feminine side of your power.
“Trust me, that does not make you weak. It makes you wise.”
DEYA SMITH, AKA “DEYA DIRECT!” is a former Miss Black USA and Ebony Magazine’s pick as a “Future Leader.” This first time author has been writing blogs for the benefit of millions for over 10 years. Known for her direct, inspirational and provocative style, Deya works as a producer for the nationally-syndicated Tom Joyner Morning Show (TJMS).