Sex Appeal: 8 Ways to Tap Into Your Inner Sexiness

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It has been said that how you present yourself is a reflection of how you feel about yourself.  But when it comes to your sex appeal it is more about how you feel than what you’re wearing.  You own your sexuality and here are  8 ways to tap into your inner sexiness.

Keke Palmer

Magazines and the media have trained us to associate the word ‘sexy’ with physical appearance.  The images we see that define  ‘sexiness’ are all  of scantily clad women or men with chiseled bodies.  So when we hear the word sexy, it is difficult for us to not try and compare ourselves to what we think sexy is.   We look at these beautiful women and men and then have a feeling of inadequacy.  But according to the Sexology Institute, sexiness is much more than physical appearance, it’s a a reflection of how you feel about yourself.  You don’t have to be a sculpted god or goddess to be sexy.  Sexiness is inside all of us.


“Keke” Palmer handles her business and is every bit sexy as she is smart.

“I don’t belong to anyone else but myself. I have to make my own decisions. Happiness is defined by me. My sexuality is defined by me. And that can change and this can change and I can make it what I want to make it because I’m the one who makes that choice. So that’s what ‘I Don’t Belong to You’ is saying. This song feels right. It feels right and it’s telling who I am. And it captures my identity.”


These tips will help you tap into your inner sexiness.  Via[BulletsandBlessings]

1. Be Proud of who you are. 

If you don’t think you’re sexy, then how can you expect anyone else to think you are?  The number one key to being sexy is confidence.  Identify your flaws and embrace them. Walk into a room with a sense of purpose.

2. Look the part.

How you present yourself can go a long way in making you feel sexy. Wear clothes that make you feel attractive and confident.

3. Get a stripper song. 


You don’t have to go all “Player’s Club” on a pole to adopt the sexual self confidence of a stripper, but a good slow jam to bring out your inner sexy is always a great way to FEEL sexy even if your think you LOOK silly.


4. Embrace your inner ratchet.


Everytime you hear a club banger like Chris Brown’s “Strip” and your hips begin to pop. You might think you’re looking extra ratchet, but if it’s you just being yourself, then embrace all of your ratchetness.   It is you and it is the sexy confident you.

5. Be honest about what gets you off.

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Beyonce’ made it clear that she wanted a “soldier” when she belted out, “We like low-cut Caesar’s with the deep waves.” Whether your weakness is for a man with a fresh haircut or even a woman who actually knows what the hell she’s talking about when it comes to all things Marvel and DC comics, it’s important to acknowledge and be proud of what gets you feeling some type of way.

6. Find your inner Sasha Fierce.

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When you’re having trouble finding your inner sex goddess in everyday life, it helps to have an alter ego.


7. Assume the position.


Think of sexual signature move that no matter how off or awkward you feel, you know it will bring any man to his knees.   It can be simple as swinging your hair while flirting or complex as pulling off a triangle pose…in the shower…with your bae.

8. Applaud your anatomy.

Take a note from Rihanna as she demonstrates how to dance for the camera in this arched pose.  Not overly sexy, but definitely confident.

Rihanna Bikini

Much like your signature move,  there should be one part of your anatomy that you know is always on 10.  Beyonce’s hips and confident swagger command attention whether she’s walking on stage or across a beach with a baby by her side. Pick a body part that makes you fall in love with yourself over and over.


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